The most popular month for weddings – May and September. Have you planned a wedding for May, then check whether forgotten something. If you plan creation new family in September, then this article can become your support and adviser.

So let’s start with the first step.

First, you say, with a marriage proposal. Secondly probably consent to this proposal. Thirdly, the definition of a tentative date. Specifically month. After all, your choice – it’s one thing, but circumstances – is quite another. And then, believe me, the wheel spin much unexpected and completely in the opposite direction than expected. Let’s start from the hall where the celebration will take place. It is elected under the previous guest list. Immediately say that restaurants take more than two hundred people can not.

Total number of rooms quietly planting and serves about a hundred people. Usually everything starts with the place that like newlyweds. But if so with three days already quarrel all for some unfortunate hall, and finally go to order it, you can shock funny picture: the wedding is 2-3 months, and the hall painted not what this number and all the numbers the previous month and the next. I believe that this is not the only such room. By the way, on Saturday recommended to marry young and first time on Friday and those who do a second or possibly third. We continue on the hall. It appears that rooms start order for six months until the event.

Modern Cinderella begin to plan their wedding for a year, at least six months. Then you get rid of unpleasant looks and words waiters and administrators: “Where you wake before?”

Incidentally Decide immediately whether you will conduct the wedding ceremony. If so, follow the hall can safely go order a cathedral or church. Here comes the same situation, two months before the date specified in cathedrals you will be booking records date back at least four or five months before.

Registry Office Registry Office or too little can you please. First, you must (again) months as six to writing formal application to join the marriage (written a month before the date of marriage, according to the Family Code of Ukraine) write another statement that so to speak, book your place for you or pre-read when you need to write an application to come to your wedding day fell on a desired date.

That is all the same algorithm with the church and hall. And there are other hidden stones and current. When you finally come to the wedding a month to write a statement, thinking that it would take up to 5-10 minutes, you are mistaken. At the entrance immediately become a lucky all the same. Finally the door opens, you go. Get a piece of paper with tiny settlement bank account to pay legal costs. Once out of the registrar. Walk across the road. And at the cash register waiting for you another surprise – the identification code is required. After paying the amount that is less than one UAH, again go to the registrar. Familiar turn. Familiar face. Again takes its place in it.

Open the same door. Next you give the application form, which you fill outside the office. More familiar turn. In the end you hand over this leaflet. All. The application was lodged.

The next fun adventure – search musicians and merry toastmaster. Of course, to find a keyboard that would be a night ” play “; in splendid isolation, choking thirst problem is not very big, but to find at least some parody of the real wedding music – a question complicated. Lot. They, like the registry office, as the temple as ordering room advance.

Step two (for 3-2 months).

Now start looking for a wedding dress for the bride. First, walk the local salons. If you can afford to buy a dress for 1-2,5 thousand, then run out on this quest.

Of course, there is the option of tailoring. And it is unlikely you will come cheaper. There is a variant rental cabin or rental of hand. One of the options – a trip to Khmelnitsky, where you can buy clothes from 900 USD. It is in your wallet.

Incidentally shoes have to buy the groom. And if the dress is taken on hire, the veil and crown must be purchased by you!

Bride’s accessories – earrings, necklaces, bracelets or rings.

All of your choice. Effectively look like pearls. If your room is jewelry with diamonds, they will be the most ideal choice. The little gold chain looks good, too. Teachers ethics advise in any case not wear jewelry. It is very cheap and is not appropriate for the bride, to be the best. Better, they say, nothing to wear. Another important rule – your accessories should never overshadow you the most! That too, is not sensibly says popular proverb.

At this stage it is useful to negotiate with the hairdresser and master of manicure-pedicure. By the way it is with a hairdresser should be to consult on veils and accessories to it (crown, tiara, flowers).

Step three – dressed groom.

What dress should be? “Above all, the suit sat!” This is the basic advice. However, traditionally, the groom at the wedding dressed in a black suit and white shirt.

On this subject there are plenty of anecdotes. For example, the bride in the marriage dressed in white, for her holiday and groom – in black, mourning for him. And there are advantages that color – the contrast of dark and light.

You can sew a costume. Then it will be exclusive. And it will take at least a month. In one last little – next to the store or market.

And back to color. Classic also considered: dark brown combined with white or cream-colored shirt, all shades of gray. Lately it has become fashionable to wear white clothes. This, of course effectively along with the bride, but not very practical.

Further tissue. It should depend on the season. Summer – a light fabric. Perhaps silk. In winter – something warmer.

Accessories groom – shoes, tie or a butterfly clip to tie, cufflinks.

Shoes, of course, should be to match the costume. By choosing a tie should come very responsibly. Sometimes poorly selected tie can ruin the whole look.

The general rule with his choice of one:

Tie should be the same color of the suit, but a couple of shades lighter or darker. Some men prefer contrasty tie. But try to make it become a bright spot.

Step Four (1.5-2 months) necessary accessories.

Determined with wedding procession. If your wedding is planned for a large number of guests, it is advisable to book minibuses. Where to find them? It is possible by taxi, through friends or go to the bus station, where you willingly agree that any driver can also open a newspaper advertisement.

Decorations vehicle. Here, as everywhere, there are several options. You can contact a flower shop in which the amount of close to a hundred UAH, decorate your car with taste. You can go to the market itself, or in the bridal salon and buy classic jewelry, belts, pneumatic layers, flowers, rings. Incidentally past, and the heart can be rented in the same showrooms.

Immediately desirable to consider the design of the room.

Decorate ornaments can be the same as the machine. Also important recent brides back (at the table) hung a garland of inflatable layers, ribbons or other decorations in the form of hearts. The village remains a tradition that is not discussed hang over young offense. European magazines also offer tables decorate candles, herbs or other decorations. And the Ukrainian tradition of providing such a large amount of food that this decor just no place, and so many drinks candles can make a fire, after which a wedding and nothing will be no need.

At this stage you can order a bridal bouquet. It will cost from USD 40-50 and 500. It depends on the flowers. In the flower shop will show you everything, talk and pick up. Bouquet, incidentally, must take the bride and bring it with shoes on bride.

Here you can order the buttonhole (flowers for brides). If you want them with flowers, then order the same place and bouquet. Then everything will match each other.

Live joy will cost 5.10 USD each. You can buy artificial and ever. At the market you can buy them from 8-10 USD. In the salons of twenty for one. By the way, there is a tradition that the bride groom boutonniere comes from that hanged him other girls. When young and shod bought it tramples this and hangs his buttonhole.

At the same stage for their own peace is to buy all the things needed for the wedding ceremony. Which? Each church and registry office will give you a detailed list of them.

The main point of this stage – buying wedding rings. Groom pays for them. What should they be? Equally. Superstitious people say that the wedding should be smooth, that life was smooth. But modern fashion and jewelry stores offer a large variety of them: carved, with inserts of white gold with a white gold with diamonds. It all depends on the amount you have. Not relevant in Ukraine rings made of silver, platinum and gold highest order.

And with the white gold also have to be careful. It is white gold actually has a slightly yellowish color, and the top is covered with beautiful silver. And when it potsarapayetsya, leaves the impression that it’s just iron. If the polish, the color will be the primary (yellow). There is an option melting, then they are really exclusive.

Everyone knows that called wedding anniversary. On the day of the golden wedding (50 years together) is that the couple has their wedding present – a sign of loyalty and happiness – young, they are going to get married, and they exchanged with new ones.

So the wedding 1.5-2 months.

It seems that many have, while still unknown. At this stage, other than ordering a wedding convoy, registration facilities bouquet bride to do other things.

For example, search a video or photo, or both video and photo service. Search is very simple: first to gather their friends videocassettes or discs containing weddings. If you find nothing good – you expect advertisers. There are several pages of such services. And the choice not hurry. Better Spend a few hours for calls to selected ads and then an evening trip to the sponsors of these ads. Why? For the same disk or tape. Immediately advice. If you have DVD-player or a computer, in any case does not settle for non-digital camera recording (cassette), so that the quality at digitizing the tape will be reduced. Better to just let off digital. Then this problem will not arise. But if you have a cassette player, the digital video you too to anything. Here it should discuss whether the price includes installation.

At the same time think of photography. If you believe that you do not need it – wrong. At the expense of video still could be doubt. But the picture – a suite sacred. Because all required photos from mother to mother cleaning woman Spirit (well, at least look). In addition, the video usually see once a year (on the anniversary of the wedding), but some of the less! But day two photos Swipe refers relatives, friends reveal.

About where to look for the photographer.

Sometimes the video and photo services provide one “office”. You can, of course, use the services registrar. One picture is worth about 14 USD, one shot on digital media 9 hryvnia. Perhaps the price has increased. Again option – newspaper ads or studio.

And I will say from my own experience that when there are several digital cameras to your friends, acquaintances or relatives photographer is needed. With thousands one hundred naykraschyh.Tse put out accurately.

Before the wedding one month.

Getting to carry or send invitations. They can be orally and can be written, printed or created on the computer.

Let’s start with the oral. They are more traditional for our region. Villagers know this tradition like no other, but the citizens of Rivne bit forgotten, a little shy. So with five families of one or two hold to it. Yet this form of invitation there and you have to know about it so that was plenty to choose from. So, for this simple case of taking a young friend, a young – matchmakers. Young invites their guests. Young – his. But first parents wrap loaf in the towel and give it the young or young at that convey his invitation to all guests.

Take for example the young. It is with his buddies go to first on the guest list. At the entrance a young said: “The father and mother asked, I ask on my wedding” ;. Then tells all the details. Sometimes the bride asks for a blessing. And this, as a family or areas where customary. With that puts bread on the table.

Often young invite to sit with buddies at a table and asked about it, while pouring a glass or two. When a householder accepts the invitation, the bride is given back loaf in a towel (but not in his hands, and in a bag!). And so it goes with young buddies-day week until all the invited guests. That’s why this tradition is particularly fond of guys who go for matchmakers.

Another type of invitation – written. In the age of computers it can be made any size (tiny unilateral, larger, two-sided), any color photo (young) or without. You need knowledge or work on the computer, or money to order whatever you come up with those who have the knowledge and skills.

Old and equally attractive format invitations – postcards. They now have different formats and cost 27 cents. You can buy in any bookstore. You can combine all kinds of invitations can generally be invited by phone or email but do not forget that how you invite will depend on whether guests come at all, and what mood they will come. Do not forget that the invitation less than a week before the wedding will not look polite and hardly will resonate. Invited think only one thing: someone refused, and I was invited to a place not lost.

In addition, at this stage of preparation would be desirable to consider the place of “military glory”, that is where you will be photographed. Immediately note: if you are planning a very interesting thing after registrar, wedding and to the table, you have a maximum of 15-30 minutes. Why? Please note that guests are hungry. And if you know where long ride, they will remember your evil quiet word and can go to a pizzeria and bistro meet need in food. Incidentally, this is not a joke, has been such cases! Try to squeeze your photo session between the registrar and the wedding. At least it will bring unpleasant consequences visitors and you will not be customized. The route, by the way, consider also advance. Think of all the picturesque places near the scene of the marriage. Preferably the water.

Again, about a month before the chosen date menu and specify the time of arrival at the restaurant, so do not look like cut salads.

2-4 weeks before the wedding.

Amending the guest list, because, as always, Aunt Tanya is not released from work, and my brother Taras ill.

Then buy everything you need for wedding hairstyles, accessories buy. Carefully select the venue for the wedding night and the necessary accessories, candles, Aroma lamps petals, silk sheets and so on.

In the process of solving all these problems should be given the task of cronies: Find fireworks (if planned). They also have to buy and negotiate with pyrotechnics or employees store the time and place of this charming show, so it is not passed when all sit at the table.

This time necessarily need the toastmaster, and musician.

The task of the bride at this time – rozhodzhuvaty for a couple of minutes a day shoes. Because marriage is converted to the thought of corn. Incidentally, if the groom’s shoes fashion, it is also some extra classes will not.

For 5-7 days before the wedding.

We provide girls ‘and boys’ nights. Why not last night? As the morning you will have these bruises under his eyes that no ice or foundation not save. Also be sure the couple will have to sleep before an important day because it starts very early and end very late. These evenings are translated entirely on the shoulders of companions and dear. They can do this Hawaiian-style party, and may lead to the bath.

1-2 days:

Putting everything on the list and check if nothing is forgotten. Prescribe those for what will follow. The bride attends manicure-pedicure room. Inspect the wedding dress and suit for the groom perfection.

For 3-4 hours:

Groom takes wedding bouquet. Bride waiting patiently until stylist and beautician roll beauty. Dress. Nervous. Settle down. Again nervous. Again settle down. Breathe deeply and entering a new life.